Saw this little blog entry today. It’s good advice for the young generation, which I suppose I’m still a part of. I am grateful to have learned what is said here, otherwise I would have been driven insane by now.
If I could add one thing to this pithy title, it would be this:
Flourish where you’re planted, diversify your dreams.
Diversify Your Dreams – Daniel Gulati – Harvard Business Review.
I wrote these words down on a piece of paper to make a list today. Two of them, actually. I know who I was, and I miss him. But I wanted to see who I was becoming and determine if I liked who he is. Continue reading
“I wonder what my Paradise Falls in my life will be”
A singular quote from a text message conversation I had with my best friend tonight. Up is a great movie. I enjoyed it quite a bit. It is also an emotionally powerful movie, which plays off a reality most people tend to ignore; our dreams may never come true.
For the past few years, I have spoken at length to anyone who would listen about our cultural tie to the American Dream and how we must inevitably face its death. I think I have spoken so much on the topic that it has become old hat for me. It doesn’t tickle my fancy as much as it used to. But the conversation tonight lit a spark, and I wanted to capture it before it was lost.
We all have our own American Dream. That’s what is so tantalizing about it. It’s not just that we all have one, and it is personal and personalized to us, but because we have the wealth and opportunity to believe it could all happen. The American Dream has never seemed more real. It has never been more within our reach. And whatever our dream is, we have become slaves to it and the hope that it may one day come true.
We have been given a moral directive to pursue these dreams. We should pursue our dreams, otherwise we let ourselves down. We become “untrue” to ourselves. We must seize the moment! We cannot waste a minute of our lives. We must live to the fullest. It is the lie of the devil to convince us that heaven can be attained on earth so we will not need or want a Heavenly Father. Anything He can offer us then pales in comparison to the great dream we have built for ourselves here. At times, it can be astonishing, and downright embarrassing, how easily we are fooled and led astray from what is good to what we hope to be.
But the dream eventually fails us. The illusion will eventually become exposed. Whether it is now or 50 years from now determines the course of our life. Will we continue to be a slave to our dream? Or will we give it up willingly and pursue what we are being led to? Shall we continue to kick against the goads?
This is not my intended post on “Home,” but I find that this topic leads into it well. It may also be that I am too ambitious in the territory I want to cover with that post. I may have to break it up into pieces.
What will your Paradise Falls be? You may already be chasing it.